As a future parent, you are at the beginning of one of the most special, emotional and sometimes exciting journeys of your life: pregnancy. At Verloskundigen PuurBegin we know that every pregnancy is unique and we understand the thousand and one questions that can haunt you. That is why we have put together a list especially for you with the top questions that you really want to ask your midwife.
From questions about your and your baby's health, to the do's and don'ts of pregnancy, to what to expect during labor, we're here to answer all your questions. But sometimes, in the moment, you can forget what you wanted to ask or, once you get home, the questions come up. With our list of essential questions, we'll help you be prepared for your appointments and make sure you don't forget anything.
Our goal is to make you feel comfortable and supported, to make your pregnancy journey as smooth and enjoyable as possible. Let’s dive into these questions together, so you can get the most out of every visit with us.
Basic (questions)
Choosing the right midwife is like finding your pregnancy buddy; someone to guide you through one of the most special times of your life. Before you schedule your first appointment, you probably have a list of questions ready. But are these the questions you Real making a difference? To help you, we've put together a guide to the essential questions you may want to consider.
Being pregnant comes with a ton of information, advice, and checklists. But the most important thing is that you feel comfortable, supported, and informed every step of the way. Start by asking questions about approach to care. Consider:
-
- Can you describe your approach to pregnancy care?
-
- How do you deal with emergencies during labor?
This will give you insight into their experience and how midwives will approach your care. But remember that your feelings about the midwife are just as important. Trust and communication are key to this relationship.
| Aspect | Ask | Rode |
|---|---|---|
| Communication | How accessible are you for questions? | You want to know how and when you can contact us in case of uncertainties or urgent questions. |
| Flexibility | Can I my birth plan discuss and adjust with you? | It is important that your midwife is open to your wishes and looks with you for the best way to realize these. |
| Support | What courses or preparation do you recommend during pregnancy? | Getting targeted advice will help you better prepare for childbirth and parenthood. |
Remember, no question is too crazy. This is your time and we at Midwives PuurBegin are here to guide you every step of the way, no matter how small or big. Leave nothing unsaid and feel free to ask anything that comes to mind. Together we will ensure a pure beginning.
Home birth, hospitals and birth centers
Whether you dream of a cozy home birth, a medically responsible hospital birth or a warm welcome in a birth center, the choice of a birthing location is very personal and depends on several factors. It is important to discuss all your options with your midwife so that you choose a place where you feel safest. For example, ask about the pros and cons of each option, experiences of other mothers and what medical facilities are available. **Don't be afraid to put all your questions on the table; this will help you make an informed choice that best suits your wishes and needs.**
To help you get started, we've put together a list of some crucial questions you shouldn't skip:
-
- What are the statistics for home births vs. hospital births in my area?
-
- For which complications would I still have to go to the hospital?
-
- How does the transfer to a hospital take place if necessary?
-
- What support and facilities do the nearby birthing centres offer?
-
- What is the policy regarding the use of a birthing pool or other natural pain relief?
This information helps paint a clear picture of the different options and what they entail.
| Option | Advantages | Cons |
|---|---|---|
| Home birth | Comfort of your own home, personal setting, fewer medical interventions | Almost complete access to necessary medical care in case of complications, but sometimes surgery is still necessary |
| Hopital | Direct access to medical care, more options for pain relief | Less personal setting, not your own midwife at the birth and possibly strict visitor rules |
| Birth center | More homely environment than hospital, professional care nearby | If the medical facilities are not adequate compared to those of your midwife at home, you can be in the hospital within a few minutes |
By reviewing this questionnaire and information with your midwife, the choice of a home birth, hospital or birth center will become a well-informed decision. At Verloskundigen PuurBegin we support you with passion and expertise, no matter the birth setting you choose, so that you can begin this beautiful new chapter with confidence.
Prenatal care
During your pregnancy, you will probably have a lot of questions. Sometimes these are practical matters, such as power supply or movement, but it can also go deeper, about emotional support and the different stages of childbirth. It is important to make a list of questions for your midwife, so that you don’t forget anything during your appointments. Questions like “What are the most important symptoms that I should look out for?” or “How can I best prepare for labor?” are essential. However, we see that many expectant mothers find it difficult to structure their questions.
That's why we've put together a simple yet effective list to help you with your next appointment:
-
- Nutrition and lifestyle: Which vitamins are crucial during my pregnancy?
-
- Birth plan: What are the options for pain relief during childbirth?
-
- Health and safety: How often should I visit the midwife for check-ups?
-
- After birth: What are the steps after birth regarding breastfeeding and vaccinations?
| Question Category | Examples of Questions |
|---|---|
| Nutrition and lifestyle | Which supplements should I take? |
| Birth plan | What are my options for pain relief during labor? |
| Health and safety | How do I recognize the signs of preeclampsia? |
| After birth | What are the benefits of skin-to-skin contact? |
This list is by no means exhaustive, but it's a good place to start. Remember, no question is too crazy; your midwife is here to answer all of your questions. At Verloskundigen PuurBegin we believe in open dialogue and personal support during this special time in your life.
Contractions and the delivery
As a parent-to-be, you probably have a lot of questions about . It's important to prepare yourself and know exactly what to expect. Sometimes it can be hard to tell the difference between real and Braxton Hicks contractions. Plus, there are so many other aspects of labor that are important. Here's a list of top questions that you should definitely not forget to ask your midwife:
-
- How can I recognize real contractions?
-
- What are the first signs of labor?
-
- What pain management methods are available?
-
- What are the pros and cons of giving birth at home versus in hospital?
-
- How long does an average labor take for a first child?
-
- What are the signs that I should go to the hospital or birth center?
-
- What can I do to speed up my labor if it is taking a long time?
The answers to these questions can help you get an idea of what to expect and how to best prepare. It is also crucial to discuss your preferences regarding childbirth. For example, do you want to use a birth plan? And what positions do you prefer during contractions? These conversations ensure that your team knows what your wishes are, so that they can better support you during this special moment.
| Ask | Importance (1-5) |
|---|---|
| How can I recognize real contractions? | 5 |
| What are the pros and cons of giving birth at home? | 4 |
| What pain management methods are available? | 5 |
| How long does an average labor last? | 3 |
| What can I do to speed up my labor? | 2 |
Remember that no question is too silly. Your midwife is there to support you and answer any questions you may have, so you feel as comfortable as possible throughout your experience. We hope this list helps you prepare for your big day!
Postpartum
If you've just had a baby, your mind is probably full of questions. And trust us, there are no stupid questions when it comes to your health and that of your baby! It's important to be open with your midwife, so you can go into this new phase of your life with peace of mind. Below, we've put together a list of essential questions you may want to ask. We hope this helps you feel prepared and supported during this unprecedented time.
-
- How do I take care of my physical recovery after giving birth? Your body has just accomplished something incredible, it deserves the right care to recover properly.
-
- What are the signs of depression and where can I go for help? It is important to know when to seek professional help.
-
- When can I start again? to play sports and which exercises are safe? Especially if you want to become active quickly, it is important to know what is and is not possible.
-
- How do I deal with breastfeeding problems? A midwife can provide you with the right techniques and tools to make this process smoother.
To make it even easier for you, we have also created a handy overview table. You can use this table as a guideline for the questions you want to ask during your first visits after giving birth.
| Checklist Question | Why It's Important |
|---|---|
| Physical recovery tips | Improved well-being and healing |
| Signs of depression | Early help can make the difference |
| Safe sports and exercises | Prevents injuries, supports recovery |
| Breastfeeding advice | Improves nutrition and comfort for both mother and child |
Remember that this time is full of new experiences and challenges, but with the right guidance and support, you will get through it. Your midwife is here to help you with every aspect of your care, so don't hesitate to ask!
Resume
Do you have a list of top questions ready for your next midwife appointment? Great! If not, we hope our article helped you create one. Remember, there are no stupid questions; your midwife is there to support and inform you, no matter what's on your mind!
At Verloskundigen PuurBegin we understand that every pregnancy is unique. What works for one mother may not be the perfect fit for another. That's why we're all about personal care, tailored to your needs and wishes. If you still have doubts or specific questions after reading the article, please do not hesitate to contact us or ask them during your next visit. We're happy to take the time to discuss everything with you.
Follow us on social media for more tips, important info and a look behind the scenes at Verloskundigen PuurBegin. And don't forget: your journey to motherhood is just as special as your little one will be.
Stay informed!
Follow us on social media for the latest news and a look behind the scenes Midwives PuurBegin in Kampen.
Discover the daily adventures of our midwives, valuable tips for expectant parents and inspiring stories from practice.
Click on the buttons below and stay connected with our heartwarming team!
 |
 |
Sincerely,
Midwives PuurBegin
Address: Orkestlaan 148, 8265RC Kampen
Telephone: 085 40 19 095
English 
Dutch 
Polish