Wat is het Couvade Syndroom? - Verloskundigen PuurBegin in Kampen

Have you ever considered that expectant fathers can be ‘pregnant’ too? Couvade syndrome, also known as paternity syndrome, is a fascinating phenomenon where men experience pregnancy-like symptoms during their partner’s pregnancy. We see this more often than you might think, affecting as many as 65% of expectant fathers, although not everyone experiences it to the same extent. At Verloskundigen PuurBegin we understand that pregnancy is an experience you share, and we are here to support you both.

Symptoms of Couvade Syndrome

You may be wondering what symptoms men experience. Well, they can ‘pick up’ a range of pregnancy ailments from their partner. These include morning sickness, headaches and backaches. Some men even develop a ‘baby bump’ or experience contractions during labour. The symptoms can be both physical and psychological.

Physical symptoms:

Morning sickness
Changes in appetite
Weight gain
Backache
Indigestion
Nausea
Heartburn
Stomach ache
Swollen belly
Toothache
Leg cramps
Genital irritation

Psychological symptoms:

Changes in sleep patterns
Changes in the sense of smell
Fears
Depression
Restlessness
Decreased libido
Mood swings
Forgetfulness
Sleep problems
Nesting instinct

Causes of Couvade Syndrome

De exacte oorzaak van het Couvade syndroom is nog niet volledig duidelijk, maar er zijn verschillende theorieën. Het kan voortkomen uit solidariteit met de partner, jaloezie, of stress. Sommige mannen ervaren hormonale veranderingen tijdens de zwangerschap van hun partner, zoals schommelingen in cortisol, testosteron, oestrogeen en prolactin. Biologen denken dat deze hormonale veranderingen bij de man optreden om hem mentaal voor te bereiden op het vaderschap. Weet dat je niet alleen bent als je dit ervaart.

Possible causes:

Attention seeking
Guilt
Stress of impending fatherhood
Stress that changes life forever
Jealousy

Couvade Syndrome Worldwide

Couvade syndrome is a worldwide phenomenon. In some cultures it is even considered a natural phenomenon and surrounded by rituals. Think of cultures in Papua New Guinea, China, Thailand, Russia, North America and the Basque culture.

Coping with Couvade Syndrome

Usually the symptoms disappear after delivery. Painkillers and rest can help with physical complaints. Talk about it with your partner, friends or a professional. In some cases a psychologist specialized in this problem can be advisable. Midwives PuurBegin in Kampen we are ready to support you and offer a listening ear.

Couvade Syndrome and Obstetricians PuurBegin in Kampen

As a midwifery practice in Kampen, we at Midwives PuurBegin understand that the journey to parenthood is a special time for both the expectant mother and the partner, full of expectations but sometimes also uncertainties. The Couvade syndrome is an example of this. We are here to guide and support you during this special journey. Together we can ensure that you are both optimally prepared for the arrival of your child.

Book tip

If you want to read more about this topic, the book 'Fathers are pregnant too' by Mark Schell is recommended.

No mental illness

It is important to emphasize that Couvade syndrome is not a mental illness. Men are aware that they are not pregnant. However, in extremely rare cases it can develop into psychotic delusions with violent consequences, possibly as a trigger for an already existing psychosis.

When to seek help?

If the symptoms are severe and affect your daily life, it is advisable to seek professional help. A psychologist or therapist can help you deal with the symptoms and address the underlying causes. Your GP can also advise you on this.

Couvade Syndrome: A Summary

Couvade syndrome is a fascinating phenomenon in which expectant fathers experience pregnancy symptoms. It is not a psychological condition, but a reaction to the partner's pregnancy. The causes are diverse and the symptoms can range from nausea to mood swings. In most cases, the complaints disappear after delivery. Do you have questions or need support? Feel free to contact us at Midwives PuurBegin in Kampen. We are here for you!

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